The Sacral Secret: How connecting to our sensuality as mamas is the key to creating exponential wealth by Alexandra Wiatr

Ahh, sex & money. 

Two things nearly every human on this planet wants more of and yet, they’re two of the most taboo topics in society today. And unfortunately, they seem to become especially taboo once we cross the sacred threshold from maiden into mother.

It’s almost as if once we become mothers, we’re just expected to allow our sensuality to take a back seat to everything else we’ve got going on (*read: it gets shoved way back into the corner of the pantry that never sees the light of day, only to realise it’s dusty and mouldy years later).

And to that paradigm I very passionately say… let’s rewrite it.

Enter: The Sacral Secret

Energetically, our sacral chakra sits right beneath our navel and it is home to our creativity, pleasure, wealth, and sensuality. Uncoincidentally, our wombs – where we create physical life itself – also reside in this energy center.

And so, by nature of all of these things coexisting in the same energy center, The Sacral Secret is the understanding that wealth, abundance, creativity, health, and yes, even sensuality & sex… all exist as different expressions of the same energetic frequency: an abundance of pleasure.

In this energy center, everything touches everything. By tapping into one frequency, we tap into all of them… i.e., tapping into our sensuality begets creativity which begets wealth.

And guess what, mama? 

Because we’ve just been energetically, physically, emotionally, expanded via birth… our capacity to receive and hold all of these things has increased, too.

We simply need to understand how to tap back into our pleasure in this new, evolved state we’re in as mothers.

The elephant in the room: How exactly do I connect to my pleasure as a mama?

First things first: let’s ditch the notion that we need to go back to the way things in our bodies were ‘before baby.’ 

Let’s start fresh. You’re a newly evolved human on so many levels with an astoundingly increased capacity to love, feel, and create.

This is something I find to be so beautiful because it means we get to consciously create the ways in which we do or don’t want to feel pleasure. We are completely in control of how we write this story.

Let’s also ditch the notion that ‘pleasure’ has to be this hyper-sexualized, runway-model-lingerie-wearing entity (*unless, of course, that’s what feels true for you!). 

Instead, what if pleasure were as simple as being so finely attuned to what our bodies crave in any given moment, and then allowing ourselves to fully be in the expression of that craving?

And what if, as a result of our default state becoming a state of presence & pleasure… we started to feel more creatively alive, more creatively turned on?

Then what if, because creativity starts to come so naturally to us again… abundance in the form of health or wealth or freedom & happiness can’t help but follow?

And so on a practical level, here’s what connecting to our sensuality – our pleasure – can look like: 

Taking a long, hot shower.

Enjoying – really enjoying – that cup of morning coffee.

Wearing the jewelry or the fancy sweater or the makeup around the house, just because.

Going for a long walk in nature.

Buying the silky PJs, just for you.

Drawing or reading or writing or painting or singing or dancing or cooking.

In other words, what are the simplest, everyday pleasures that you can start to cultivate awareness around? Where can you turn them into little mini rituals just for you?

This is pleasure. This is sensuality. And that is the fullest expression of The Sacral Secret.

It really does get to be that simple.

And when living this way starts to become our default? 

Remember… everything touches everything. Pleasure begets creativity begets wealth. True abundance, true wealth, starts with really, truly being in the bodies we’re in, right here and right now.

Allowing our bodies to hold the energy of exponential abundance starts with allowing ourselves to first find pleasure in the everyday.

That I truly do believe.

Alongside running a 7-figure e-commerce business with her hubby and 2 small children, Alex is a sensuality & wealth mentor to mamas. She helps women connect back into their bodies post-babies so that they can create their versions of exponential wealth in her signature program, Unravel. Catch Alex on her podcast, The Unraveled Woman, or connect with her at www.thesacralsecret.com or @alexandraxwiatr